There is no such thing as sophisticated as public transport for picking up a date. Public Transport provides a number of options to pick a date of your interest. How many times you saw someone who is so attractive for you and haven’t taken further steps to have a chat with them. Are you planning to be a single in your whole life time? Remember catching up a chat with a stranger on a public transport is very simple if you follow my way.

To pick someone in public transport, you first need to be a little but brave who can initiate the chat. No one will chat with you until unless you initiate the chat. Don’t be shy to pick someone on public transport.

Handle the Environment

Remember the rule one. Public transport is a tough environment. In public transport you can find a variety of people who might be soft or rough or someone who don’t like intrusion into their privacy or frustrated people about Traffic or any other things. You can even find people who are aggressive in public transport. So how can we catch up a chat with someone whom we hardly know? To chat with someone in public transport you must be a quick thinker and you must be able to create new topics for chatting. You must be decisive than aggressive. Aggressive people get less chance to catch a chat with someone on public transport

Checkout your date

In public transport you must first check the person you are interested. Find out the timings of travel to make sure that you travel with them on the same time. You must be quick in taking decisions because your date might get down in next stop. Once you decided to catch up some chat with the personals, check their environment. Are they with someone? Or Are they with their better half. Trying to pick someone who has a better half will bring tears rather than life.

Position yourself

Now you had found the person you wish to chat on the public transport. Now you need to position yourself such that there will be some eye contact between you and the personal you are trying to pick. Positioning is so much critical. I had seen a lot of personals loose chats with their loved ones because of their position. You must position yourself in public transport such a way that, there are high chances of getting an eye contact. If you are targeting a personal in public transport remember that, you need to position yourself outside too. If you are waiting for Bus or a local metro rail, let them get in first. This will give an opportunity for you to find out their place and you can position yourself easily.

Asserts

It is always useful to have a newspaper or a magazine in your hands. It will give something to pretend to look. By having a newspaper or a magazine you can avoid glancing the open space or outside always. Sometimes having a newspaper or a magazine will help you in starting a conversation with a stranger in public. If you use MP3 player, remember to remove the headphones off from ears. When you have your headphone on, your body language sates you are not approachable. This will reduce the chance of picking someone on Public Transport. Even though you have mp3 player, casually take them off in front of your target.

Eye contact

Eye contact is most important to start a conversation in public transport and to pick someone in public transport. Eye contact is the best way to tell someone as physically attractive. Begin by glancing him/her by catching their eye and holding it for a second or two. Then have a look somewhere. Again after 30 seconds you can glance at them again. If they glance at you, they might be interested. Continue this for some time before you speak up. This is because glancing might be misunderstood a lot of times. If they don’t look back at you, then chances are they are not interested and all your advancement will be bear no fruit.

Smile

There are no alternatives for a smile. A proper smile helps you to attract others like magnets. A Smile makes your face bright and attractive. When you catch their eye for the second time, smile at them. It makes you friendly and approachable. That helps you to start a conversation with them too. If they smile back, it is likely that you are on the path of winning. Remember too much smiling makes you look odd so be careful while smiling.

Body Language

A perfect body language is a great weapon to attract people. You don’t need to be Brad Pitt or Shakira to attract people. A perfect body language helps you to be the center of attraction. A comfortable body language will tell a lot about their interest on you. Once they smile back to you, it’s time to check out their body language. A proper sign about their interest on you is they angled themselves towards you. This is a positive sign and you are one step ahead in the path. Make sure your body language is also positive. Never cross your arms or your legs. These are negative signals showing disinterest. Angle yourselves towards them.

Speak up

It’s time to start a conversation with them. Lot of people is not ready to start a conversation with a complete stranger. Even though body language is perfect people don’t have nerve to start a conversation. Knowing how to start conversation with strangers will help you to have a small chit chat with the person you are targeting. Remember you don’t have hours, so decide immediately. They might get down at next stop, so better be fast on this.

A simple Hi will help you to start the conversation, try to ask questions which can open up more than just a yes or no. This is not an exam to get a yes or no. Also remember that they might not speak with you just like that. So don’t lose hope. If they are interested to have a chit chat, they will happily give details and answer more. Their voice will show whether they are genuinely interested on you or not. If it is going badly, just get off at the next stop.

Are you interested in attracting women like magnets in your singles life. Every men can attract any kind of women easily like a magnet if you follow the basic 10 tips. Read below the 10 tips to attract women like magnets.

1: Never Settle for Just Any Woman

The biggest mistake you can possibly make in any relationship is to settle for whatever woman comes along for fear you can’t do any better than what you have! Doing this will prevent you from ever finding the woman you are truly meant to be with. It is difficult to take a leap of faith, especially in matters of the heart, but settling to be with a woman that doesn’t “do it for you” is a HUGE mistake…for you both! Do NOT settle for just any woman hold out for someone that you really connect with and live the life of your dreams! Believe it or not, women admire men who know what they want and won’t settle for anything less. It is a major turn on!

2: Apply the Laws of Attraction

This subject has been poked, prodded, turned upside down and inside out. It is contained within every magazine and book and research paper on the subject of love that you will ever run across. As a relationship expert myself, I have an entire wall of books dedicated to this subject alone, and more books and articles and theories are created every day around the globe on the differences between men and women regarding their particular triggers for attraction. It is right under your nose, every day, everywhere…on TV, out in public, you name the place…it’s right there staring you down! Yet unbelievably, there are STILL people who are completely clueless about the Laws of Attraction.

Now, this is not to say that the Laws of Attraction are good or right or even tolerable at times. But, there are certain inalienable truths about attraction that you need to know and understand if you desire to become successful in any romantic relationship.

What are the Laws of Attraction? Simply put, Men and Woman are polar opposites when it comes to attraction. Men initially feel sexual attraction based upon a woman’s physical appearance, which then leads them into a desire for a relationship. But, women are initially attracted to a man’s qualities. Sure, women will admire a man’s looks, but that doesn’t lead them into a desire for a relationship with him. It’s when a man exhibits confidence in his body language and communication–regardless of his looks–that women feel a powerful sexual attraction that over shadows the man’s physical attributes.

3: Don’t Be Too Nice

Of course, everyone knows that being “nice” is considered socially acceptable in the world. But, women do not choose a lover based upon how nice they may be - that’s how they choose their friends. Being “NICE” just isn’t what ignites the flames of passion. What does ignite the flames? Attraction. What is attractive? Confidence in one’s self! Use positive body language, take meaningful actions, and be your genuine self without regard to what others may think of you. This doesn’t mean you should act like a jerk, because no one likes a jerk either. It simply means that in order to attract a woman, you MUST be confident in yourself.

4: Convincing a Woman To Like You is a Big No-No!

Do not waste any of your valuable time trying to convince a woman that doesn’t appear interested in you romantically that you are the person they are meant to be with. It will NEVER work, and in fact, may backfire on you in a most embarrassing way. Why is this? Because you can’t change the way a person “feels.” You can try to understand and you can offer alternative points of view, but you cannot change their feelings. To make matters worse, when faced with the knowledge that a woman doesn’t “feel” attracted to them, some men often take ridiculous action to convince them otherwise-they will relentlessly pursue the woman without regard for her lack of “feelings.” Spare yourself this tragedy and move on to the next lady in line, who might just “feel” attracted to you-an absolute necessity to a fulfilling relationship!

5: Seeking Her Approval is a Waste of Time

It is completely adverse to human nature for a woman to desire a man who seems to actively pursue her approval. Psychologically, it instills in a woman’s mind that the man is automatically not worthy of her attention, and no matter what you do to gain the woman’s approval…you will always be considered less than worthy. ALWAYS! The simple truth is that you will lack the necessary confidence in yourself in order to succeed in gaining the attraction you seek. Now, this does not mean you should completely ignore a woman’s approval-just that, instead, you need to gain it through self confidence. NOT by seeking her approval of you!

6: Buying Her Affections will not Score You Any Real Points

Yes, it’s true, everyone loves freebies! But, it’s also true that you get what you pay for. If you lavish freebies on a woman to gain her attraction, you send a strong message that you are so insecure in yourself that you must compensate by spending money. Guess what? Insecurity is NOT attractive. What is attractive? Confidence! Instead of buying a woman expensive gifts – take action that you put thought into, such as arranging a unique evening for you both to cook a meal together or doing something especially memorable and romantic. This sends a strong, clear message to a woman that she is too important for you to risk getting your message across by just sending a bunch of flowers. No, you are a MAN! So, show her that you mean business!

7: Revealing Your Feelings Too Early - Yikes!

There is a time and place for everything! Revealing your feelings for a woman should only be done after you have had plenty of time to assess and confirm a mutual attraction. Jumping into the “feeling” pit too early on sends powerful signals to a woman that you lack control. On the flip side, taking it slowly and even appearing aloof is a much better position. When you slowly warm up to a comfortable place where the woman is begging you to share your feelings, you will instantly know how attractive it is to be desired in such a away. This does not mean you should avoid being genuine. Definitely be honest and up front about who you are and what you like and don’t like, but save the “feelings” exchange for a time when you know the woman is sincerely interested in hearing them.

8: Basing Your Worth upon Money And Looks

Of course, it’s true…there are a few rotten apples in the barrel that focus all their energy on attracting only men that have good looks and lots of money, basing all their hopes upon material issues. But, they are fairly easy to weed out of the bunch. In truth, most women are much more attracted to a man’s personality than anything else, including women who end up with very wealthy men that lack personality! History has shown us that very powerful, wealthy people have fallen head over heels in love with others that have neither power nor wealth. What did they have? They had a personality, and that personality was based upon confidence! You see, positive character traits are compelling attributes that act like magnets and literally draw women to you instantly. Believe it or not, women prefer to be romanced by men who hold out their arms and pull them in for a hug rather than men who pull out their wallets whenever they seek attention. Yes, having a J-O-B is quite important, so don’t go overboard. No woman enjoys being romanced by a free loader with no money at all. But, it doesn’t take a fortune in the bank or a plastic surgeon to exude sexual attractiveness.

9: Sacrificing Your Authenticity

Guess what unique attributes you have that no one else in the entire world possesses? You have an original authenticity that is completely different from everyone else. If you sacrifice your authenticity by appearing desperate for a woman’s attention, you lack the ability to attract her. So, what do you do? You find out who you are and you stick with it. You don’t pretend to be something you are not and you don’t beg for a woman’s permission to be your true self. You walk the walk and talk the talk, and let the cards fall where they may. Why? Because if you don’t, you will end up settling for whatever it is you get.

10: Just Do It!

Countless numbers of people exude ignorance about matters that they know exactly how to handle. If you want something, you MUST take action to get it. If you find out that it wasn’t what you really wanted, then you move on to the next challenge. Life is a constantly evolving experience of action after action after action. So, if you want to approach a woman you’re attracted to and get her number or if you’re dating someone that you feel like kissing, don’t just sit there acting all nervous and confused. Instead, walk right up to her and ask for the number or move right in and kiss her. Sitting on the sideline and wondering what to do about things that you know you want will not score you any points. And believe it or not, women are attracted to men who know what they want and take action to get it. So, how do you do this without offending a woman? You confidently act on your desires without regard to potential failure while exhibiting a genuine respect for her feelings. If she appears disinterested, FINE…that’s your cue to exit stage left. But, don’t let it deter you from approaching the next woman you’re attracted to…or she might just be the one you pass on the way out the door!

Why is it so much easier to have a negative attitude than a positive one? What’s inside you that just naturally pulls you to the negative side of things?

You read the books, you attend the seminars, you buy the tapes, you even wear the t-shirt…..and things seem to go well for awhile. You feel better, your outlook is better, and you’re hopeful. That is…..until something happens that sends you reeling all over again.

It doesn’t even have to be a major, catastrophic event to send you back to the land of negative thinking. It can be something as simple as someone cutting you off in traffic or pushing ahead of you in the grocery checkout line. What gives those seemingly simple occurrences of every day life so much power to literally throw you into a tizzy all over again?

This never ending cycle continues because its source is never addressed. You “try hard” to be positive, attempting to over-ride how you truly feel. It’s a lot of work pretending to be positive when inside you know all too well that it won’t take long and one of those annoying life issues is going to creep up and dump all over your positive attitude.

Negative attitudes come from negative thoughts that come from reactions to negative behavior….and around the cycle goes. And you must know that none of this negative stuff is coming from God. There is nothing negative about the way He thinks or acts.

So how do you put a stop to all this nonsense? How do you get to a place where your positive attitude is what’s natural for you and not the other way around?

I wish I could give you a magic formula that, when applied correctly, would erase your negative attitude in 3 days. Yup, can’t you just see the infomercial on a product like that? For just $19.95 you can have all your dreams come true. What a bargain! People would be lining up for this one.

But alas….the real world isn’t quite so simple. But the good news is that there are some things you can do to help you transition from the land of negativity to a much more positive place.

• First, focus on what you’re thinking about. Remember the part about being stuck because you’ve never addressed the source? All your negative actions are coming from your negative thoughts. Your body has no choice but to follow wherever your mind goes.

  It is possible to control your thoughts, regardless of what you’ve been led to believe. As soon as a negative thought comes into your mind, purposefully make it a point to replace it with a positive one. At first, this may take some work, because chances are, you will probably have a lot more negative thoughts in your head than positive ones. But eventually, that ratio will reverse itself.

• Second, stop letting other people’s negative attitudes influence yours. This may mean you need to stop hanging around with people who do nothing but spout negative stuff. You can’t afford to do it when your goal is to become more positive. The negative people in your life aren’t going to like it when you stop participating. Just remember that birds of a feather really do flock together.

• Third, make a list of all the areas in your life that you want to change. List all your negative attitudes too. If you can’t really think of things to put on your list, just ask your family. I’ll bet they’ll help you make it a REALLY LONG list.

• Fourth, take the time to write strong, life-giving, positive affirmative statements. Make a commitment to read those statements out loud every day. Enjoy how great they make you feel. Know in your heart that you’re making progress, even if you can’t see it just yet. Just keep affirming the positive.

• Lastly, take the time to pray about this. You can’t change by yourself. But you can spend time with the One who can help. You do what you can, and you let God do the rest. It really IS that simple.

This process will change how you think and that’s the real key to changing how you act. Remember…..your body will follow wherever your mind goes. There is no way to separate the two, so you might as well “program in” what you want instead of randomly leaving it to chance.

Just know that God’s version of right attitudes contains nothing negative. And if you want God’s best for your life, it starts with right thoughts…..His thoughts to be exact.

We all face situations in our lives that cannot be changed and that make us feel helpless and hopeless. Perhaps it is less serious than that, but we are stressed and worried. It might be an event that has happened, is happening, or will happen.

It should provide some immediate comfort to consider that these situations do not directly cause these awful feelings, but it is what we think of these situations. Changing our thoughts can have an enormous effect on how we are feeling. This has been stated by many great minds, over very many years.

“I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street, I met a man who had no feet.” - Ancient Persian Saying

By reviewing some of the good things in our lives, past and present, we can feel good even in what appears to be a very disturbing situation. As long as there is nothing we can do to fix a problem, dwelling on the negative aspects of it will only make us feel worse and will do absolutely no good. Since it all depends on what is in our thoughts, we can control this.

“The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven.” - John Milton (1608-1674)

So start listing the things in your life that make or have made you happy. Stuff your mind with other things that make you smile or laugh. Keep it up so as not to let the negative creep back in.

Study babies. They fall and get up and try again and again, and then they walk. They are usually always ready to laugh, at the littlest things. They are constantly interested in new things to learn about, and normally sleep well. If they brood about a bad experience it’s not for long.

“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out.” - Art Linkletter